Break the Cycle: A Straight Talk on Injustice, Power, and Responsibility

We often hear people say, "Think outside the box." But what does that really mean when you're still stuck inside the box? That's the real challenge. Most people aren't even aware they're in a box. They follow routine thinking, bound by systems and structures. But the real shift happens when you start questioning from within. If you can do that, you're already ahead.


One of the reasons the cycle of poverty continues in many countries is this inability to think differently. People just follow the motions—governments keep asking for aid, and development partners keep giving. But rarely do we stop and ask: Is this really helping the country? Often, the aid benefits a small group in the government. And the donor agencies? They benefit too—in their own way. So it's a win-win—for both sides. But what about the country itself? That's where the system fails.


Yes, historically the West colonized the East. White powers colonized Black and Brown people. And yes, they developed while many in the Global South didn't. That's true. But what now? What can we do about it today?


We cannot keep clinging to a victim mindset. Saying "we were colonized," "we were oppressed," or "we were discriminated against" doesn't change the fact that we let it happen. The right response now is not to keep mourning that history but to outsmart it. To resist being dominated—not through violence, but through building strength, unity, and strategy.


Imagine this. There's a big, muscled man in the middle of the road. And you're a small, frail person standing in front of him. Every day, he beats you up. Alone, you can't fight him. But you're not alone—there are many like you. If you unite, you can outnumber him. That's where your power lies.


But then someone might say: "That big man doesn't let us unite. He interferes whenever we try to organize or build capacity." Yes, that's part of the struggle. But that's not his strength—that's your weakness. How did you allow him to reach that deep into your affairs?


Look at Africa. Colonizers deliberately drew borders to divide people—borders that made no sense in terms of culture or community. They created chaos that lasts to this day. Why? Because they could. They were the strongest at the time. That was the rule of the jungle. They made the rules. You may say it was unjust—and it was—but no one is coming to fix it now.


As Nietzsche said, "God is dead." There's no divine figure coming to set things right, to punish the colonizers and reward the colonized. The only person who can fix this is you. If you're strong, you'll find a way. If you're weak, you'll be stopped. But history has shown again and again—one person can change the world. People's power is unlimited.


And here's another hard truth: If you cannot develop your country the way the West did—if you cannot create wealth, fix your problems, unite, mine your resources, or secure your prosperity—then maybe it's time to stop looking at the West as the ideal. Maybe there's another way to define your own standards of living. Maybe you don't need the kind of development the West has done to live a happy, meaningful life.


You can be 100% free and content with very little income. You can live a fulfilling life on $10 a day—and still be miserable on $1,000 a day. So if you cannot change global systems or make them fair, maybe the more powerful act is to reorganize your own thinking. Find happiness in what is socially, culturally, and economically suitable to you—not in someone else's model of success.


In short, stop waiting. Stop feeding on the narrative of injustice. Recognize it, yes—but don't live in it. Act. Fight back in smart ways. Build what you can. Redefine success. That's the real way forward.

How we were fooled into the COVID scam back then!

Just thinking about how we were fooled into the COVID scam back then!

We saw governments spraying people and cars alike with pesticides as they entered cities to "disinfect" them! We saw rural municipalities spraying pesticides along even the most desolate roads using water cannons and fire trucks! Entire villages or neighborhoods were sealed off just because one person was suspected to have been infected!


We witnessed mandatory regulations that forced everyone to get vaccinated, regardless of whether they had gained natural immunity from successfully recovering from the so-called virus.


We saw poor and already heavily indebted nations take massive loans to buy vaccines—many of which now remain unused, waiting for a secure dump site. Nepal, for example, took over $500 million in loans to purchase vaccines from supplier countries, most of which remain unused.


Today, I hear and see everywhere the economic, mental, physical, and psychological side effects of the pandemic—and the struggles of poor countries trying to recover from the shock.


Looking back, now that the muddy water in the pool has cleared on its own over time, the reflection may be highly rewarding for all who suffered.



On Deception: A Reflection

People often say, "You deceived me." But what does that really mean? Is deception something others do to us, or something we do to ourselves?

Deception is a loaded word. It implies that someone has intentionally misled us. But in reality, no one can truly deceive us unless we allow ourselves to be deceived. At its core, deception is often rooted in expectation — we trust someone, we believe something will happen in a certain way, and when it doesn't, we feel betrayed. But was it really deception, or was it our own misplaced belief?

People are unpredictable. They are dynamic, constantly shifting in mood, intention, and behavior. Even they don't always know how they will act tomorrow. So how can we expect them to behave exactly as we wish?

Instead of saying "You deceived me," perhaps we should say, "I was wrong to assume things would go as I imagined." It's not about blame; it's about taking responsibility for our expectations. Trusting someone is a risk — one we choose to take. If things don't turn out as we hoped, it's not necessarily deception; it's the unpredictability of human nature.

In the end, the only real deception is self-deception — believing that life or people will always align with our hopes, assumptions, or plans.

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